Are We Bad People?
Are we bad people? Are we behaving worse? Doing worse things? Are we told too many negative things? Are we lied to and then act on those lies? Much like the shameful Tucker Carlson, I’m just asking questions. However, what do we ask of ourselves daily? So even when placed in a tough circumstance, do we keep our integrity and then unconditionally act to help others?
These questions should linger in our minds, pushing us to reflect on the values we hold dear and the actions we take. In a world that sometimes seems filled with chaos and uncertainty, it's essential to pause and ponder the essence of our humanity. Are we inherently flawed, or can we strive to be better versions of ourselves?
The truth is, no one is perfect, and we all make mistakes along the way. The key lies in acknowledging these imperfections and using them as opportunities for growth and self-improvement. It is through the recognition of our shortcomings that we can aspire to become more compassionate, understanding, and empathetic individuals.
Amid challenging circumstances, our integrity becomes a guiding compass. It is the inner voice that whispers the importance of staying true to our values, even when tempted to compromise. It reminds us that acting with integrity is not about seeking recognition or praise; rather, it is about living in alignment with our beliefs and principles.
We should be mindful of our actions and our thoughts when we may misalign ourselves towards opposing, hurting, or negative actions towards anyone. If your leaders blame others and then still commit the same offenses, it’s merely projection. These leaders are the ones solely there to take and exploit power. The ones who admit fault and failure and ask for help and forgiveness are the ones willing to grow and evolve. Will the people you follow admit they were wrong about anything? Or do they blame others and try to smear people and institutions. How often do “good” people blame others?
Then, to become “good” people, you must create self-imposed guidelines to live up to the standard set for yourself and yourself alone, then, what others do will not matter to you. It will not matter who is to blame because the actual problem is the focus, not the opposition. Your guidelines should not be your children’s standards, your friends’ standards, your co-workers standards, or your significant other’s standards either. They do not have to live up to your self-imposed standards. Only you will have to. Therefore, be strict with yourself and tolerant of others. Every single living thing around us is on the same journey. TO LIVE LIFE NOW!
Even if the worst thing imaginable happened to you, you still must accept that you actively or passively think about it that way. Creating perspective and unconditionally continuing to do the right thing, even if it hurts more, is our own chance to improve. Once our standards are set, it will be easier to make that decision. If you think of yourself as generous, then you are constantly trying to give. If you say you are generous and hoard things, can you call yourself generous? If you think of yourself as kind and continue to find examples of being harmful, then are you in fact kind? If you set conditions on when and when not to be kind, then you are conditionally kind. Your goodness is for a reason. Could a “good” person, in fact, not be good at all?
Often, “good” people will turn to religion and hold it as a guiding light. That’s fine, but when people use religion to justify evil acts, it’s a special kind of malice. They might be the ones claiming to help, but harming people along the way. Or maybe they hold their self-imposed standards as the way all people should live. They forget that others are living separate lives. They justify this as helping but do not accept that others have set different standards. Remember, you set the standards for your life. Only you can do that. Others must be granted freedom to set their own.
In a world that often glorifies self-centeredness and individual gain, we can choose to stand apart by embodying unconditional acts of kindness and compassion. When we extend a helping hand without expecting anything in return, we sow seeds of positivity that can blossom into a brighter and more harmonious society.
The question of whether we are bad people or not is not about defining our inherent nature; rather, it is about recognizing our capacity for change and growth. Every day offers us a chance to make a positive difference in someone's life, no matter how small the gesture may seem. Whether it's lending a listening ear to a friend in need, volunteering for a cause we deeply care about, or simply offering a smile to a stranger, these actions have a ripple effect that can inspire goodness in others.
By fostering a critical mindset and being open to diverse perspectives, we can avoid being swayed by falsehoods and misinformation that may lead us astray from our values In our pursuit. To become better individuals, we must also acknowledge the impact of the information we consume. In a world flooded with negative news and misinformation, it's crucial to be discerning and seek out reliable sources of truth. So, I like to approach it this way.
How is the real problem addressed?
What do I currently know about the problem?
Do I care to be more educated on the issue?
How many sides of the problem are presented?
Is this problem something within my control?
If yes, I will help to the best of my ability.
If not, then I don’t need to comment. No one cares about my opinions anyway.
Are they actively or passively trying to evoke anger?
If yes, what are they trying to make me mad about?
Why does that upset me?
Is that in my control?
If yes, why do they want me to be angry about it?
If not, then I don’t need to comment. No one cares about my opinions anyway.
So, are we bad people? The answer lies within each of us. We have the power to choose our path and define the legacy we wish to leave behind. By embracing our imperfections, acting with integrity, and practicing unconditional acts of kindness, we can become beacons of light in a world that sometimes seems filled with darkness.
In the end, it's not about being perfect, but about striving to be better today than we were yesterday. Let us challenge ourselves to be the change we wish to see in the world and to approach each day with the intention of spreading love, kindness, and compassion. Together, we can create a ripple effect of goodness that has the power to transform not only our lives but also the lives of those around us. So, let us dare to ask ourselves the tough questions, and in doing so, let us discover the extraordinary capacity for goodness that resides within each of us.
